Would you allow your gf/wife at any time and any day to talk with and/or meet other guys in your home or even when she is in bed with you? How about in the living room, kitchen, or the bathroom? How about any of her zany girlfriends or acquaintances popping in at anytime to tell her what she needs to do about you?
I'll go out on a limb here and predict 100% of will say NO.
If you allow her to use social media, that is what you are permitting.
The smart phone allows any guy from anywhere to come into her life at anytime. They can talk, text, exchange photos, and even videos.
You must simply and calmly make it clear that if she wants to be in a relationship with you then she shuts down all social media.
She then has a choice. What can be fairer than that?
Don't get pulled into any arguments or fall for any tirades, or any other antics. For example, she could say you're controlling or your insecure. Ignore it. Stay on point, demand an answer. Have her make the choice.
If she chooses social media then you have filtered out a future of grief with her. Think about it. She is saying she can do without you, but not social media. You now know where her loyalties lie.
If she chooses you, the relationship has serious potential.
WOMAN:
Good morning sexy. I'd love to schedule to get my hair extensions done so I feel oh so sexy for our date tonight.
MAN:
Good morning gorgeuos. I'd love to schedule to get my truck detailed so it looks extra amazing for our date tonight.
WOMAN:
What!? You're the man, you pay!
MAN:
Quit living in the 1800s with socially constructed gender stereotypes. This is the 21st century where women are empowered, strong, and independent! Get with the times or get left behind.
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