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When a woman says you are 'too nice', she is not saying she wants you to be mean or abusive, or even less nice. What she is saying in a very round-about way is that she wants you to take charge. She wants you to lead, she wants you to be strong for her. She wants you to not tolerate her games, antics, and emotional mayhem. She wants you to navigate any storms you both encounter. She is not saying she wants Captain Bly. But she doesn't want Captain Milquetoast either. She does not want someone she can manipulate, nag, browbeat, bulldoze, push around, etc.
She won't come out and tell you that she wants you to take charge because that would be ridiculous. She would be telling you what to do. Who would be in charge then? The best indication you'll get from her is "you're too nice".
A real woman secretly yearns for you to be strong and lead. Yet her heart sinks when she sees you display the spine of a jelly fish or the idiocy of a bully. She will lead a quiet life of despair hoping and aching for you to be a man until she gets utterly sick of your lack of strength and leadership. To be clear, it's not physical strength we are talking about. It's strength as in having a backbone, confidence, character, spirit, determination, virtue.
A woman dreams of meeting a good Captain, but all she can find is Captain Bly and Captain Milquetoast. Captain Bly gives her raging rivers of passion. Captain Milquetoast gives her an arid desert aching to be quenched. She will dump Captain Bly when she gets sick of his badness (or he will dump her) just as she will dump Captain Milquetoast when she is sick of his niceness (or she'll cheat on him).
You can be a leader and be nice, but there will be times where you will have to lay down the law, hold the line, correct her behavior, and that won't be too nice.
You can go along with what modern society has indoctrinated everyone with, and treat women as equals and realtionships/marriage as a committee of two. Or you can realize that men and women are fundamentally different, and decide to be a real man. Not the grotesque distorted repulsive caricature of a man that modern society has created.
WOMAN:
Good morning sexy. I'd love to schedule to get my hair extensions done so I feel oh so sexy for our date tonight.
MAN:
Good morning gorgeuos. I'd love to schedule to get my truck detailed so it looks extra amazing for our date tonight.
WOMAN:
What!? You're the man, you pay!
MAN:
Quit living in the 1800s with socially constructed gender stereotypes. This is the 21st century where women are empowered, strong, and independent! Get with the times or get left behind.
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